Category: Marriage

In previous discussions, I’ve asked you to set aside your emotions for your partner. It skews your thinking and it can lead you to make an emotional reaction to a person versus the logical decision-making process we’re going through together. I’ve asked you to set aside your affection for your boyfriend or girlfriend so you… Keep reading!

What do you do when you’re trucking along with your partner, everything’s fantastic, you love everything about them, and then all of a sudden you smack face first into a big wall of something that you absolutely cannot live with. Let’s talk about it. Relationship Road Bumps We all have things that we will and… Keep reading!

While you’re dating (and as you are deciding whether or not you want to get married to a particular person), you’re going to find a lot of things that you like about your partner. You’ll find a bunch of things that you love about them. You’re going to find some things that you don’t particularly… Keep reading!

As you are making the decision to marry somebody, you’re going to run into things about your partner that you don’t like. And then there will be things that you really don’t like! What I want you to remember is that, while you don’t need to agree with your boyfriend or girlfriend about everything, but… Keep reading!

So you’re thinking about getting married and you’re going through this decision process. Maybe your own, maybe the one that we’re working through on this website. What exactly is it that you’re deciding to do here? Is it as simple as, let’s get married? Nope- it’s more complex than that. Let’s talk about it. For… Keep reading!

Everybody likes to have an escape route in life, a fallback position if things don’t work out. I can always do “this.” If I lose my job, I can get another job. If my car breaks down, I can get another car. But when you’re deciding to get married, if you’re thinking in the back… Keep reading!

I’m going to make a controversial statement (for some of you), but it’s important to talk about as we progress along your marriage decision path. Don’t get married WITHOUT HAVING SEX. Let’s talk about it. Make Love For A Better Marriage Don’t get married without having sex. I can feel the hatred and surprise emanating… Keep reading!

So it’s late at night and you’re making out on the couch. You look at your partner and think, “Gosh, they look awfully good! I think that we should get married!” Time out! Is that the only reason you want to get married to this person? Don’t get married for looks. Let’s talk about it…. Keep reading!

So you’re in love. The days are brighter. The birds are chirping in your ear. Everybody’s twitterpated and you’re thinking, “This is the one. This is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, all the reasons make sense. The world is telling me- let’s get married. We’re in love. Let’s… Keep reading!

When you’re deciding to get married, one of the things that might be holding you up is holding out for a more perfect mate somewhere. Well, let me clue you into something that is harsh but true, you do need to settle to get married. Let’s talk about it. Reality Is Harsh But True Reality… Keep reading!